Relationship breakups

In the common colloquial slang we often call breakup as dumping. In the relationships today each one see the break up differently, few see it as an emotion equivalent to death, in a legal relationship like marriages the breakup is considered as divorce or separation, in few short term relationships breakup is never considered important. People who are not involved in their relationship do not see breakup as an emotional issue. In long term relations breakup is something that is painful for both the partners. They undergo various phases in their break up. Few of them get back again in their relationship.

Let us see the after break up phase in a long term relationship

Ending the relationship was very difficult, from here the effects of the post breakup starts. When you are staying away from your partner, it is then you get to know yourself better as what you want and what you like the most in him/ her. You try to ask yourself what is important to you the ego or the happiness of staying with your partner. During this phase many people just keep weeping and crying. This is a bad idea, all you need to do is find some time for yourself, relook the breakup reasons. If you feel get like getting back with your ex will make you happy, then go for it. You will realize the depth of your relationship only during the after breakup phase.

Getting back with ex

This is the most difficult thing, as you need to do it cautiously. Many find that getting back into relationship with their ex back is unnecessary and start a new life, as and when they see their ex dating someone, there comes the jealously and wanting of getting back into the old relationship. Also keep in mind that after breakup the relationship with your ex gets new form and definition. Many find it difficult to continue and hence breakup permanently. Few couples make their relationship successful by solving their breakup issues. They see new partners in their new form of their old relationship.

Tips to follow in your relationship with your ex after breakup

·         Since you know the reason for breakup, make sure you don’t repeat the same again

·         Change yourself as he / she likes you to be

·         Do not fight frequently

·         Get closer with them, talk more, give more time to them