Getting back into relationship with an ex

There are plenty of arguments on the topic to stay away from your ex. Many of them get back to their ex and later on have healthy relationship. Many have said that after a break up and rejoining with ex, they see lot of change in her/ him, that is a better person is seen. Many teenagers due to silly reasons have a breakup and later on get some maturity and patch up with their ex.

Getting back together with an ex is very hard. After ending a relation, few of them feel that they should have tried a bit more to be together. You begin to question yourself, was it silly breakup or was it worth it. Many sit and think of the pros and cons of being with ex. Even with all these feelings of confusion it is hard to say whether the breakup was a mistake or not.

After breakup phase

After a difficult breakup that ended the relationship, there begins the post breakup effects. When you are away from your ex, you will get to know yourself better and eventually know what is good for you. During this post breakup phase late night weeping, night out parties, are very common. Give a pause and have a time to think what exactly you want. Whatever you choose, just make sure you do not end up into an emotional dramatic relationship where in you keep on doing patch ups and breakups, where in the cycle is never ending. Make your choice wise.

Signs that show you need to patch up with your ex

Sometimes you are not sure of what you need. In that case here are few signs that say you and your ex must give it another try

·         As the time goes by, when both are apart you feel more matured in seeing the break up issues. We all know time is the best healer.

·         Being apart you might start missing your ex and you will feel the reason for fighting was silly and might think of restarting it from clean start

·         After a few months you might feel the problem behind the breakup is no longer an issue

·         May be you see your ex has realized the mistake and has changed, hence breakup problem is fixed

·         While dating someone else you might end up remembering your ex.

All these signs are one side, only if your ex also feels the same then you can refresh your relationship.