How to get your back into your life

It was very easy to get into a relationship and too easier to break up the love relationship. After a break up, when dating someone else, many at times you might feel that you made a mistake by letting go of her/ him. Even though being with someone you keep remember about your ex. Hence you reconsider of wanting her/ him back into your life. You grow fonder of her or him when not around you.

It might not be very late to get ex back, but executing to get her/ him back should be cautiously done. You must not be rash or make some stupid moves which might make him/ her move far away from you. 

Tips to get your ex back into your life

·         Make it slow, do not just do it in hurry.

·         Try to reconnect with her or him by forwarding a sweet text or mail.

·         Further go ahead with texting her or him saying something sweet that reminds the warm togetherness of your relationship.

·         Have a phone conversation, asking about her / his health

·         Do not immediately jump in asking on a date with your ex

·         After the call conversation, slowly as your ex for a movie, or for a coffee, or some music concert.

·         Do not come to a conclusion that your ex is trying to get back in relationship with you just because he/ she has accepted your invitation for going out

·         In your conversation with your ex, ask about his / her work, ask about family and friends, and ask about their pets too.

·         Tell your ex that you miss her/ him

·         Observe the reaction, when you said that you missed him/ her

·         Do not remind or talk about the things that went wrong in your relationship that lead to break up

·         Based on your ex’s reaction, proceed a step forward in asking sorry and take the responsibility of what went wrong

·         Important tip do not do all the above steps at one outing, do it slowly in many outings

·         Use your mutual friend group for recreating some good time with your ex

·         Do not discuss about your dates post the break up, it might annoy her. She might even think you have gone ahead.

·         Give her / him small gifts when meeting.

It is easily said than done. Make careful moves to get your ex back.